Veracity
Vaaimai Enappatuvadhu Yaadhenin Yaadhondrum / Theemai Ilaadha Solal
Classical English couplet — “You ask, in lips of men what 'truth' may be;'Tis speech from every taint of evil free”
What it says in plain words
“Truth means speaking words that cause no harm to others, even a little.”
The classical Tamil reading
வாய்மை என்று கூறப்படுவது எது என்றால், அது மற்றவர்க்கு ஒரு சிறிதும் தீங்கு இல்லாத சொற்களைக் சொல்லுதல் ஆகும்.
An expanded Tamil interpretation
பிறருக்கு எள்முனையளவு தீமையும் ஏற்படாத ஒரு சொல்லைச் சொல்வதுதான் வாய்மை எனப்படும்
The ethical and philosophical heart
This couplet places care for others at the heart of truthful speech. It asks us to notice how our words affect people. Even a small comment can hurt someone at home or work. Before speaking, consider whether your words could cause any harm.
In personal life, work and society
- Personal
- You explain why you are upset without insulting your friend.
- Workplace
- You point out a mistake without making fun of your coworker.
- Family
- You explain a broken household rule without calling your child bad.
- Society
- You describe a neighborhood problem without spreading hurtful claims about anyone.
How to apply this today
- Decision-making
- Before speaking, consider how your words might hurt someone.
- Integrity
- Speak honestly while taking care not to harm others.
- Communication
- Explain what happened without adding insults or hurtful labels.
- Leadership
- Discuss mistakes without shaming the person who made them.
- Governance
- Explain public decisions without using words that turn people against one another.
For leaders and teams
When guiding others, choose words that do no harm. Explain what needs to change without putting anyone down.
Something to sit with
“How could you speak with more care in a difficult conversation today?”